Meg writes... This book started as a story which I
was asked to write, exploring death and grief for children. The original
idea was for a straightforward picture book but I very quickly thought
it would be a bit different to include instructions for the things
that Pollys friends and relatives make. The original publisher
decided it wouldnt work for them and I put the idea on one side.
Much later, I approached BRF with the idea and it expanded into the
story/activity book you see now.
I really wanted to write this book because I have been to a surprising
number of funerals and I think it is very sad that children are
often excluded from the proceedings. I think this adds to our whole
societys fear of death. In the past, people were much more
open about their grieving and, I think, faced up the whole issue
much better. I hope this book will be useful to families when they
are coping with a bereavement and will be great comfort.
If I could change anything in this book, I would include some details
of support agencies for bereaved families.
I still really love the story and one of the poems I have written
for the section on taking part in the service. Its about a
young girl I knew called Sharon who was killed in a road accident.
I wanted to write something to celebrate her life and I really like
the lines:
And her talk was like the fizz
In a pack of Refreshers.
The tube is empty now, but I loved the taste.
I will remember it for ever.
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